Caroline Danjuma, a Nollywood actress, has talked publicly for the first time about her separation from her ex-husband Musa Danjuma.
The tv star said that she blamed herself for not having a flawless marriage and for the faults that both she and her husband made throughout their time together.
According to her, she lived with bitter words and continual criticism from friends and strangers who had no idea what had happened to her marriage, and it was only after she began to recover that she realized she wasn’t a failure.
She wrote, “I blamed myself for not making a perfect marriage, I blamed myself for both faults of ours until I started healing then I knew I was not a failure.
“I prayed to God for assistance most importantly to forgive myself and him. Rather than hate the outcome of what was, I chose love and peace of mind for what is.
“We both ain’t perfect and that is what makes us human.
“I dealt with the hurtful words from friends and strangers, the stigma and constant mockery without knowledge of what truly happened.
“God whispered, I am with you and that was it. My journey to finding me began and I never looked back. I came, I saw, I conquered ☺️, most importantly I have found my lost identity. Healed, restored, unprovoked, loving, and blessed ..#howcarolynagothergrooveback.
“Thanks to @lanreolusola who spoke through the words in the Bible to help me find my way. Some of us are better off as friends than lovers.
“It is ok to see a professional counselor, you ain’t mad you just need clarification. It is ok to fail and rise again. Let God lead you. No hate but love always. Accept your faults, learn to forgive others, and move on in peace.
“This is my first time talking about my divorce, not an easy journey, most times very painful moments especially if you are a perfectionist and kids are involved. Kill the hate it will only ruin you.
“If you are wondering how you will pick up financially trust me you will, just stay focused and determined. Love without regrets.”