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Motherhood: Mom-Teenage Son Conversations That Matter (14)
Teach Him Perseverance Beyond the First Step
Discovering one’s purpose and taking steps to use and develop it is powerful—but staying the course, especially when challenges come or the excitement fades, is what truly builds greatness. Mastery isn’t just about talent; it’s about grit—that inner strength to keep showing up, even when it’s hard or no one is clapping.
As mothers, we must help our boys develop this resilience. We must teach them that success doesn’t happen in a giant leap. It’s built in small, consistent steps—day after day, choice after choice.
Whether your son is learning an instrument, building a business idea, exploring leadership, or growing spiritually, the key is consistency. There will be days when he wants to give up—when results are slow, when progress feels invisible, or when failure knocks him down.
That’s when he needs your encouragement the most.
Remind him:
– Growth takes time
– Every small effort matters
– Not everything will feel fun—but it’s still worth doing
Share real stories. Noah kept building the ark while others mocked him. Thomas Edison failed hundreds of times before creating the light bulb. Great athletes, artists, and leaders all had to persevere through boredom, disappointment, and difficulty to become who they are.
Let him know: Real strength is staying the course when it’s not easy.
Speak life over him: “You don’t have to be perfect—you just have to keep going.”
And don’t forget to pray with him. Tell him, “God finishes what He starts—and so can you.”
You’re not just a mother—you’re a nurturer. Help your son discover and grow into the man God created him to be.
Kindly share how you are helping your son persevere in challenges.
Bye!