Motherhood: Tips For Raising Emotionally Intelligent Kids (10)

Hello Great Mothers!

Have you ever heard adults say things like, “I can’t control myself when I’m angry, I raise my voice,” or “When I’m angry, I feel like I could break something or lash out at anyone in my way”? Or perhaps, “When things don’t go as I planned, I get overwhelmed and frustrated, and I just give up,” or “When I’m deeply upset, I can’t help but cry…” and so on.

Mastering one’s emotions and the ability to respond positively to situations beyond our control, as well as to the emotions of others, is crucial not only for achieving success but also for maintaining mental balance.

Mastering emotions involves having control over how you respond to your feelings, rather than letting those feelings dictate your actions. This skill enables you to approach various situations with clarity and calmness. It also includes the ability to understand, respect, and appropriately respond to others’ emotions, fostering strong relationships both personally and professionally. This aspect of emotional intelligence is closely connected to empathy and social awareness.

Furthermore, mastering emotions means responding constructively to challenges or difficult circumstances. This skill is vital for maintaining composure and resilience in tough situations. It also keeps you motivated while handling a project, particularly when faced with obstacles.

In previous articles, we’ve covered several components of emotional intelligence, and now we’ll discuss the last one:

Self-Motivation

Self-motivation is an important component of emotional intelligence, especially for leaders. It drives individuals to stay focused, passionate and committed to reaching their goals. Encouraging our children to develop self-motivation will help them continuously strive to achieve their objectives, persevere in the face of failure, and inspire others to work toward shared goals. This is a vital leadership skill in both organizational and business settings.

We don’t need to be perfect mothers to raise our children, but with God’s guidance, genuine love, patience, and understanding, we can nurture children who will positively impact the world.

Bye!