Motherhood: Tips For Raising Emotionally Intelligent Kids (8)

Hello Great Mothers!

Emotional intelligence, as previously discussed, refers to the ability to recognize and manage one’s emotions healthily, while being considerate of the emotions of others. It also involves not allowing one’s circumstances, other people’s actions or emotional outbursts to dictate how one reacts to situations or behaviors.

According to Daniel Goleman, an American psychologist, emotional intelligence consists of five key elements:

1. Self-Awareness:
   Self-awareness is the foundation of emotional intelligence. It involves recognizing your emotions and understanding what triggers them, as well as how best to manage them. For example, if you know that being late for work makes you feel rushed and frustrated, which in turn leads to irritability throughout the day, you can implement strategies to prevent this. By preparing the necessary items for work the night before, going to bed early, and waking up with enough time to avoid a rushed morning, you can manage these emotions effectively. Teaching children this technique helps them develop the ability to understand and regulate their own emotions.
2. Self-Regulation:
   Self-regulation is the ability to control how you express your emotions, which is closely tied to discipline. Teaching children this aspect of emotional intelligence fosters self-discipline, enabling them to resist peer pressure and maintain control over their emotions. This discipline not only contributes to their success but also helps them to overcome peer pressure, and reduces the likelihood of engaging in harmful behaviors.

Instilling these components of emotional intelligence in children as they grow will equip them with the skills to navigate their emotions effectively.

We will explore the remaining components of emotional intelligence in the next article.

We don’t need to be perfect mothers to raise our children, but with God’s guidance, genuine love, patience, and understanding, we can nurture children who will positively impact the world.

Bye!