Eriata Ese Challenges Troll Over Marital Status

Actress Eriata Ese has taken a strong stance against what she called double standards and hypocrisy in society after a married woman chastised women who were branded as “baddies” for having children outside of marriage.

When the woman denounced unmarried mothers in a comment on one of Eriata’s blogs, the argument started. In a scathing reply: Eriata wrote;

“Hardworking wife, abeg try shut up and focus on your marriage. Them no dey pick husband for ground carry go house. Ndi ala cho cho cho.”

“Inasmuch as marriage is a good thing, some people don’t think or wonder why a person chose a certain path,” she said. “You don’t know my past, if I’ve been abused, have trauma, or trust issues I’m healing from. You don’t know if I’m waiting for something to click before I say yes to marriage or if I’m still working on myself to be someone’s peace. Yet, people jump online to type nonsense because commenting is free.”

“You’ll hear, ‘Once you’re 30+, just have your kids.’ When you do, they’ll ask, ‘Where’s the father?’ If you wait for marriage, they’ll say you’re too old. When love finally comes, they’ll question why the man didn’t marry a younger girl. And ironically, most of the people saying these things are women,” she lamented.

Her comments have since sparked widespread reactions online, with many praising her for speaking out against judgment and double standards faced by women.

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