Popular Nigerian dancer, Kafayat Shafau, professionally known as Kaffy disclosed that she stopped making love with her husband three years before their divorce.
The record-breaking dancer revealed this during a recent interview with media personality, Chude Jideonwo.
Kaffy in January 2022, had announced her divorce.
The dancer in the interview disclosed that her husband cheated on her with her best friend.
According to Kaffy, she started healing when she stopped sleeping with her husband.
While sharing her ordeal she said,
“LET ME TELL YOU WHEN I STARTED HEALING; WHEN I STOPPED SLEEPING WITH MY HUSBAND.
“I WAS CELIBATE IN MY MARRIAGE FOR THREE YEARS BEFORE GETTING A DIVORCE.”
“THERE ARE DIFFERENT KINDS OF RED FLAGS THAT WE WOMEN IN LOVE ARE SO BLINDED BY.
“I WAS THINKING AT THE BEGINNING THAT I HAVE FOUND SOMEONE ELSE THAT WOULD MAKE ME HAPPY. THAT’S THE MOST SELFISH THINKING THAT ANY HUMAN BEING CAN HAVE FOR ANOTHER HUMAN BEING.”
The dancer also spoke about the domestic violence that prevailed in her parents’ marriage.
Kaffi disclosed that her parents used sharp objects like knives and forks whenever they fight.
She noted that the consistent fight made her and other siblings hide sharp objects in the house to avoid their parents from hurting each other.