Bobby Maris, a Nigerian social media star and the ex-husband of actress Uche Ogbodo, has questioned the necessity of relationship secrecy by advising couples to examine their partners’ phones.
In a post on his Instagram story, Maris offered the advice, arguing that if partners are having unprotected s*x, they shouldn’t conceal their phone passwords from one another.
He believes that couples who are at ease engaging in unprotected s*x should also feel at ease giving each other access to their cell phones.
“Make sure you go through your partner’s phones, y’all can’t be having unprotected sex and be hiding your passwords from each other!” he wrote.
I beg to disagree with Bobby Maris. A healthy relationship should be built on trust, honesty, and mutual respect—not on checking each other’s phones. When you truly trust your partner, you don’t need to go through their private messages to feel secure.
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