A breakup can be a significant and sometimes painful experience, but what I do know is that it does not have to define who you are.
Although a breakup can be very tough and draining for some people, it will only influence your emotions and perspectives temporarily; it is ultimately just one chapter in your life, and it will pass. Your identity is shaped by a lot of things, including your values, passions, relationships, and personal development.
The majority of people nowadays are more infatuated with the idea of being in love than they are with the person they so claim to be in love with. With every negative trend going viral all over the world, it is really hard to find genuine love.
If you don’t live, you won’t have your heart broken. So, see the phase as an experience you learn from. You are still unique in your way, though, and that fact remains unchanged. Just not everyone will be aware of that. So treat yourself with dignity.
Recovering from a breakup can lead to self-discovery, resilience, and new opportunities. You are resilient, and this event will only make you more resilient.
Remember that you have the power to define yourself beyond the end of a relationship, and that with time and self-compassion, you can emerge stronger and more aware of who you are.
It’s critical to keep in mind that a breakup does not indicate your value. Cry for a while, but don’t allow the breakup to define who you are. Take advantage of this chance to concentrate on your objectives, passions, and self.
You are not defined by your breakup. However, how you treat yourself after a breakup reveals a lot about your personality.
A final word for you is – Never run back to what broke you. Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.
Live with Purpose, Love with Passion. Remember to be happy
One 
Rose Ajieh