Kafayat Oluwatoyin Shafau, better known by her stage name as Kaffy, is a Nigerian dancing legend who has spoken candidly about marriage and divorce.
The dancer discussed how divorce lowers a woman’s chances of finding love again in an interview with the Honest Bunch.
However, Kaffy pointed out that a woman’s value shouldn’t be diminished by divorce. According to her, a divorced woman can be a decent wife, particularly if she makes an effort to better herself.
“What makes you think that a woman that has been divorced is not even the better candidate if she has worked on herself? What’s the guarantee that two single people today are not going to be divorced tomorrow?”Why are people feeling like ‘I need to marry him fresh, I need to marry her fresh’, but both of you are going into the same data that the world has completed for you, that over 70 percent of marriages crashed. You’re part of the 70 percent”, she said.
Kaffy also noted that romance is often confused for love. She stated that some acts in love are just trauma responses.
“Do you know that a lot of butterfly in the tummy are a lot of trauma response?. Real love brings peace”, she said.
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