Enoch Adeboye, the General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, has advised young men to put practical and spiritual factors ahead of physical attraction when selecting a life partner.
Additionally, he cautioned men against getting married to unfriendly or incapable cooks.
Speaking on Saturday at the church’s May Holy Ghost Service, Adeboye cautioned that decisions based solely on appearance could have long-term repercussions and described them as potentially hazardous.
“There are many demons that are very beautiful. If you marry because of beauty, you might choose a demon. I’m not saying all beautiful people are demonic. If it’s beauty alone that leads you into marriage, it’s a deep trap,” he said.
“Don’t marry a girl who cannot cook. We are talking of excellent counsel. Only I can tell you these things. Even if a prophet says this is your wife, if she can’t cook, say ‘Thank you, keep her.”
“Don’t marry a girl who does not do things in moderation. No matter how close you are to a wedding and your girl is suggesting a wedding that is going to cost you everything you have and get you into debt, call it off,” he directed.
“The girl you are going to marry must not be heavily made up. If you look at the girl, the hair on her head is from India. The eyelashes are false. The nails of the hand are false. The nails of the toes are false. You must ask yourself the question, ‘What is behind the mask?’ Because one day you will discover that excessive makeup is simply saying there is something to hide,” he said.
Pastor Adeboye’s advice highlights the importance of practical skills such as cooking in a marriage. While love and other qualities are vital, the ability to prepare meals reflects a level of responsibility and partnership that can strengthen the marital bond.
His counsel serves as a reminder for men to consider essential life skills when choosing a life partner, emphasizing that a well-rounded relationship goes beyond surface qualities to include practical teamwork and mutual support.
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