Temilade Openiyi, better known by her stage name as Tems, is a Nigerian singer who has disclosed that she has never experienced love.
Nonetheless, the 28-year-old stated that she hoped to fall in love at some point.
Contrary to popular belief, Tems claimed during a recent episode of Flow With Korty that “love is blind,” to her, love is felt with eyes wide open.
“I haven’t been in love. Loving someone for me is more of ‘I see you and I still want to be in your life. Even though you annoy me sometimes, I choose you and I choose you.’ I would like to be in love, to experience something deep but really real not blind. I don’t believe that love is blind, I think if you really love someone you’re loving them with your eyes open,” she explained.
“I feel like people get infatuated and they call that falling in love. If you’re blind that is not love. Love is when you’ve seen the person, their yansh is open and you’re like ‘I still want it. I still want that.’ I want someone to see my goods and be like, ‘Yeah, give me some of that,” Tems added.
The real meaning of true love is different for each person and situation. In the end, it all boils down to what we feel when we finally experience it.
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Rose Ajieh