There is no right or wrong way to grieve the loss of a loved one. The emotional shock, anger, disbelief, etc makes it very hard to come to terms with reality. Popular Nigerian singer; Davido has finally broken his silence over the death of his close friend and former manager; Obama DMW.
The Nigerian music industry was greeted by the news of the death of Obama DMW who reportedly died of suspected heart failure at a hospital in Lekki, Lagos state on Tuesday, June 29.
Davido, took to his social media pages on Wednesday, July 7, 2021, to pay tribute to Obama DMW.
David who expressed his sadness over the demise of one of his close associates says it has been hard coming to terms with the death of his friend.
“This is by far the hardest thing I’ve had to write. I am hurt, broken, sad, and lost. For the first time in my life, I am EXTREMELY confused. The pain is one I cannot explain. 44 was more than an elder brother to me, he was a protector,” he wrote.
“He was someone that literally just always made me smile. He would do absolutely anything to make me smile, no matter the issue or problems I had. His response was always “Don’t worry, I’ll talk to them”, “Don’t worry I’ll sort it out”, “Don’t worry I’ll give them something”.
“I would never believe in a million years I will be writing a tribute like this to someone so dear to me this soon. All my life it’s been “David you’re strong, David you’re strong”. 44 I won’t lie to you, this time around, this one WEAK ME!!”
“I miss you so much 44. You became so peaceful. You found peace and purpose, a true generational influence. I cannot even begin to count the amount of people you helped, artistes you brought to me, people you brought together in nothing but love and brotherhood. Actors, artists, influencers all. God!
“44 I swear you will never be forgotten. Up until now, I cannot believe this is real, I don’t even know what I’m writing, I’m just writing. I’m just confused.”
“This has been such a haunting week for all of us. All of us, me, his family, his son, his daughter, his brothers, his friends, a whole brotherhood; God give us all the strength. This isn’t even about me, it’s about all of us, and all the amazing plans and vision you had. 44 I swear, I will not let a single one of your visions die.”
“It is hard getting by without you, my backbone is truly gone but I won’t stop making you proud. I promise to continue to take this thing we started together, to the ends of the earth. I promise to continue dominating the world.”
“And to Malik, even though you are taller than me ❤️, you are basically my son. Doing so well in school, passing with flying colors. I have to be strong for you, and you have to be strong for the family, your mom, and your grandmom. Everything 44 wanted to do for you, we will finish it together. 44 MY FRIEND. May God accept you to His kingdom. I Love You.”
In December 2020, Davido’s bodyguard Tijani Olamilekan aka TeeJay died after a battle with an illness and in October 2017, the famous singer lost three friends to death in one week.
We all know that coping with the loss of someone you love is one of life’s biggest challenges. Time is a good healer so we hope with time Davido will bounce back.
Rest on Obama DMW.