Simi, a Nigerian singer-songwriter, has revealed that although she has been harmed but she has never gone through heartbreak.
In a recent interview with VJ Adams, the single mother admitted that she had previously shattered someone’s heart. She clarified that she puts her emotional health first by severing relationships with people or situations that make her feel insecure or uncomfortable.
“I don’t think I’ve ever been heartbroken, but I’ve been hurt before. I don’t have any memory of being heartbroken, but I’ve probably broken someone’s heart though,” she said.
“I’m the type of person who used to say that I never wanted someone to date me to that I don’t feel bad or because they pity me. Let me feel bad, then I’d get over it. It’s the same way I used to operate; if I felt like something wasn’t working, I’d walk away from it.
“I’ve not been heartbroken before because if I feel like something isn’t good for me, the way my brain is wired is to walk away from it”, she said.
She noted that this approach isn’t limited to romantic relationships but also applies to friendships and other relationships.
Simi said: “This isn’t even only for relationships. If I have friends that make me feel unsafe, I’m ready to cut it off because I have anxiety.”
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