The Nigerian gospel singer Judikay has talked about having six miscarriages, the most recent of which happened in February 2025.
The singer openly discussed the mental and physical suffering she endured after the loss, which occurred after she had passed the three-month mark of her pregnancy, in a video posted to her Instagram site.
She described how what at first seemed like a little discomfort quickly developed into a tragic circumstance.
“If February 2025, I experienced a pain that almost crushed me. I was pregnant for well over three months. One of these days, I was going about my day when I started to experience cramps,” she said.
“I said, ‘Oh, okay, it was one of those things.’ And then trickles of blood, and I said, ‘Oh, spotting’. If you are a woman who has been pregnant before, you will know what spotting refers to.
“And then I had the urge to use the washroom. And what I thought should be urine was blood. It did not stop. It kept flowing. And I was devastated because I understood what that meant automatically.
“This baby that I lost, that has gone past three months, mark the sixth one.”
She disclosed that she was taken to the hospital, where doctors carried out a dilation and curettage (D&C) procedure following what was diagnosed as a missed miscarriage.
Reflecting on the aftermath, Judikay said she initially tried to stay strong but later struggled with deep grief, especially at night.
“I was rushed to the hospital, and they did a D&C on me because it was a missed miscarriage,” she added.
“And when I returned home, I thought I was okay. I had cried and shouted whilst they broke the baby and brought the pieces.
“Everyone would ask, and I would say God gets the glory.
“But then in the silence of the night, I would experience a pain that I could not express. I would wail and cry and say, ‘Jesus, where are you?”
Judikay, your honesty and faith in the midst of such profound pain are truly inspiring. Your strength and courage in sharing your journey can bring hope and healing to others facing similar struggles. Thank God it ended in praise.
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Rose Ajieh
