During times of anger, it is so easy to focus on what is troubling our heart, our mind, and our soul. We want to be heard, acknowledged, and validated — even if it’s at the expense of fully listening to the other person’s perspective.
When they push back, we push back, and before you know it, a full-fledged argument ensues — accusations are made, blame is placed, and the real issue becomes buried beneath a pile of hurtful comments.
But remember this: God created us in His image and with that came self-control; the ability to regulate our emotions, thoughts, and behavior whenever we are faced with impulses or conflicts. In other words, because we are a new creation in Christ, we have within us the ability to override our initial reactions and intentionally respond in love.
