Motherhood: Tips For Raising Emotionally Intelligent Kids (4)

Hello Great Mothers!

Emotional intelligence involves mastering the emotions that shape our lives. Teaching children emotional intelligence means helping them learn to manage their emotions rather than letting emotions control their actions, thoughts, and behaviors. When we teach emotional intelligence, we equip them not to let others’ actions or words dictate how they feel or respond.

Beyond academic qualifications, many organizations now seek candidates with emotional intelligence skills, such as maintaining a positive mindset, demonstrating enthusiasm, showing leadership abilities, building strong interpersonal relationships, being flexible in decision-making, communicating effectively, and adapting to new roles. This makes it essential to teach emotional intelligence from a young age.

In previous articles, I discussed the importance of modeling emotional intelligence for children as one way to teach it. Here are additional strategies:

3) Manage Your Reactions and Use Calm Language:
When you’re angry or upset, instead of reacting impulsively by shouting or slamming doors, take a few deep breaths and respond calmly. For instance, say, “I’m upset right now; can we discuss this later?” This shows children that it’s possible to remain composed, even in difficult situations.

4) Stay Calm During Disagreements and Seek Solutions Together:
During conflicts with your spouse, resolve them calmly and constructively, discussing issues without raising your voice. Similarly, if your child disagrees with you, instead of shouting, stay calm and use phrases like, “Let’s talk about how we can make this work for both of us.” This demonstrates how to handle disagreements peacefully and find mutual solutions.

Do you believe teaching children emotional intelligence is key to building and maintaining healthy relationships? Please share your thoughts.

We don’t need to be perfect mothers to raise our children, but with God’s guidance, genuine love, patience, and understanding, we can nurture children who will positively impact the world.

Bye!