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Nigerian Man Declares Unmarried Women Above 30 Deserve To Remain Single, Narrating Story Of His Aunties

Nigerian Man Declares Unmarried Women Above 30 Deserve To Remain Single, Narrating Story Of His Aunties

A Nigerian guy believes that single women over 30 should stay single since they are the root of their problems.

According to the man’s story, his mother emphasized the need of marrying young, especially for a woman.

He highlighted his aunts as a case study for his claims, revealing that they are over 40 and single because they continued turning down suitors who were not as rich as they wanted when they were younger.

He said: “So I was talking with my mum the other day and she began to lament about my aunties predicaments.

“3 of them are educated and over 40, yet single.

“The first lives in Asaba, she used to be extremely beautiful (and still is for guys who may not be interested in wifing young, energetic beautiful women with fresh blood) and uncouth.

“She used to attract loads of admirers and guys were trooping in to ask for her hands in marriage when she was in her 20s. She not only turned them down but made a mockery of the legit hustling guys at the time, she mocked their financial status and embarrassed those who persisted.

“Most of the men approaching her at the time are happily married and doing well for themselves now but my aunty is still visiting one prayer house to another seeking the hands of God in her life. I was told she resorted to online dating after men were no longer showing interest as usual and lost huge sums of money in a romance scam.

“The latter is the exact opposite of the former in terms of looks and character.

“This one was and is still very ugly but with good character. She had a suitor who was ready to marry her in her 20s, the man happened to be in his late 50s.

“She sought advice from her sisters and friends, they all agreed that this well-to-do man was too old for their young, albeit ugly sister. They tricked her into believing that she would find young, rich, educated suitors who would seek her hands in marriage in no distant time.

“They raised the bar so high that aunty suddenly forgot she was a female version of SHREK(ogre), she developed the Prince charming fantasy and chased this educated, rich old man away. Ever since then, she has been falling for guys who only want to swim, eat her money, and run away.

“She’s currently indebted from borrowing a substantial sum of money for a lover to process his visas in a premise that he would marry her and move her abroad once he’s slightly settled.

“This one is frustrated like kilode, I was told she is now dating a soldier and she pays his rents and bills, does domestic chores for him and nigga still cheats under her nose.

Nigerian Man Declares Unmarried Women Above 30 Deserve To Remain Single, Narrating Story Of His Aunties Agnesisika blog

“The last one had a boyfriend in university days who graduated and got a good job, he proposed to her and she turned him down simply because she wanted to finish her studies first, she is the independent woman wannabe and hoped to be a career woman.

“Baba jejelly went to marry his first wife and got some children.

“My aunt graduated, got a job, and started doing well but no husband in her 30s. Baba came back and asked her to marry him again but she said she can’t be a second wife to Dangote let alone her EX. Baba went and married a second wife

“So it happened that my aunt clocked 45, and she still hadn’t found her dream man and bone of her ribs.

“Then Baba came back the third time, this time my aunt shamefully agreed to be the third wife. Thank heaven’s she now have children of her own.

“My mum used to tell me that when she got married in her early 20s in the university, her friends and sisters were mocking her that she was going into marriage too early and she should have stayed back to enjoy her life as a spinster.

“Today she’s happily married with grandchildren, while some of those who mocked her then are living miserably as old spinsters, second or third wife’s or hooking up small boys young enough to be their kids in town.

“So I told my mum squarely that I’m not sympathetic to their travails and that they deserve every bit of it.

“What are your thoughts about women unmarried in their 30s?”

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