Many women these days refrain from having first-date sex to avoid being called “loose” or because they don’t want their date to lose respect for them.

Should you have sex on the first date? Is an age-old question with lots of relationship experts giving their opinion on the matter.

Nigerian self-acclaimed most sought-after relationship expert; Blessing Okoro has shared a response she gave to someone seeking relationship advice from her on the above subject.

The “relationship and mental expert” was asked by a follower if it’s OK for her to have sex with a man on a first date.

Blessing responded, telling the follower that sex on a first date doesn’t make one cheap. She added that it’s based on “choice and connection”.

However, she advised the follower that they should spend the first date getting to know each other.

She wrote;

“The fact that you have the intention of sleeping with him is your answer. Sleeping with someone on your first date does not make you cheap it’s just your choice and connection. But I will advise you to talk more on the first date than sex.

“Sex is too cheap, communication is very expensive because it will expose the real identity and personal. Sex hide it”.

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You know the old saying: “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?” Yeah, that’s a dumb saying but that is the way it is. I agree with Blessing.

Don’t rush on a first date, take your time, observe the person, have fun and let the rhythm flow.

What do you guys think? Should sex on a first date be allowed?

Kindly share your thoughts with us.