Media personality Do2dtun has discussed the significance of winning over a partner’s family.
Before making a commitment, he underlined the need of taking a partner’s family into account. He cautioned that a lack of family consent can lead to an unsustainable position in a post on his X account.
In order to avoid emotional tiredness, the media celebrity advised against depending on a spouse to mediate or defend the relationship all the time.
Do2dtun wrote: “Before you pick a partner, look at the family first. It’s very key. If a decision-maker doesn’t like you, it’s over. If you expect your partner to stand in the gap, they will eventually break. It’s worse if you now have a partner that has no mind of their own.
“If you are a means to an end, your happiness doesn’t matter. However, be accountable and let your decisions bring joy to your family or else the day you drop the ball, it’s the ones that don’t like you amongst them that will take advantage.
“Let your sacrifice extend to your well-being first as you extend it to others. Your heart can be big enough to take it all but your mind is not. It eventually destroys the heart. Family is not only what you do for them but what they do for you too. Happy Valentine’s Day everyone”.
Well said Do2dtun! This is the hardest truth. It is generally considered highly advisable to know your partner’s family well before getting married; this allows you to understand their values, dynamics, and potential challenges that could impact your future marriage.
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Rose Ajieh
