“S*xual Compatibility Is A Lie From The Pit Of Hell” – Solomon Buchi

S*xual compatibility, according to self-professed life coach Solomon Buchi, is a “lie from the abyss told to make young people unendingly in their pursuit for someone who will outperform their last sxual encounter.”

In a tweet that was shared on social media, Buchi expressed his opinion that people should seek “s*xual commitment” rather than “s*xu*l compatibility.”

In his view, those eager for s*x often end up sleeping with everyone in town, eventually, turning to p*rn stars and head to start a godly marriage. He claimed that s*xual compatibility was the devil’s catchphrase.

‘S*xual compatibility is a lie from the abyss to make young people fornicate unendingly in their pursuit of someone who’ll s*xually outperform their last s*xual partner. They end up sleeping with the whole town. What you need is s*xu*l commitment, and it only exists in marriage. Commitment ensures fulfilment, hence, if you’re committed to someone, you’ll do anything within reason & sentiment to please them. Emotionally, this is the case; s*xually, it’s the same. S*xual commitment in marriage is God’s design. S*xual compatibility is the devil’s buzzword.

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‘Think of this: as a Christian, premarital s*x is a sin. You somehow fall into it, engage in it with multiple partners, and when it’s time to choose a life partner, you use what you learnt through SIN(fornication) for ascertaining who you’ll marry. This is not consistent. How do you seek godly marriage through sinful desires and acts? How do you measure a potential partner with the perversion you learnt from p*rn? S*x is important, but the s*xualization of marriage and even our partners is the spirit of lust at work.

‘S*xual compatibility says “I’m going to test you & if you’re not good enough, I’ll leave you”, while s*xual commitment says “I’m going to wait till marriage, and even if you’re not good enough at first, I’ll stay committed because we have forever to grow in pleasing ourselves.”

‘S*xual compatibility’ is impatient, and so is lust; therefore, sexual compatibility is lust. S*xual commitment understands s*x as a duty as much as it is for pleasure. It gives room for growth and a safe space for vulnerable intimacy.

‘Stop looking for p*rn stars to build a godly marriage with. In fact, these defiant s*xual desires are a result of disobedience to God. If we all stayed s*xually pure; you won’t go into marriage wanting 50 styles in 10 minutes or desiring 9 inches. These are works of the flesh.’