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Motherhood: Motherhood: Impatience In Parenting And Its Impacts On Mothers And Children’s Growth 4

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Motherhood: Motherhood: Impatience In Parenting And Its Impacts On Mothers And Children’s Growth 4

Hello Great Mothers
Are you a mother who usually runs out of patience because of your children’s attitude? It’s easier to embrace daily life as a mother when you practice patience. You can develop more meaningful relationships with your children daily, even when they pull tantrums or are disobedient or stubborn. Above all, you can get a good night’s sleep without feeling over-stressed despite all you had to handle during the day. The truth is we need this great virtue as a mother to be able to pull through each day without being worn out.
However, if your children need attention, even when you are very busy. When you have patience, you will be able to calm down, think, and figure out ways to give your child attention ( this creates a bond between mother and child), and also complete your tasks. Even if not all, the most important ones. Patience will make you calm down, instead of getting angry and shouting, because you felt disturbed.

On the other hand, impatience makes you feel more anxious and stressed. Though, everyone is susceptible to becoming impatient occasionally. But, if we exhibit impatient more frequently, there can be major consequences;

1)It affects your emotional state
Impatience affects our emotions. Despite all you have to pull through daily as a mother, the best thing you can do to feel good about yourself is to learn how to manage your emotions. Although you don’t have to get rid of impatience permanently, you shouldn’t let it impair your capacity to reason and make good decisions.

2) It affects your Health;
Frustration, anger, and even rage are all related to impatience. Such feelings might increase your stress levels, which can be detrimental to your health. The American Medical Association recently published research that specifically identified impatience as a risk factor for hypertension, even in young adults.

3) It affects the relationship between you and your child: when you cannot take a few minutes out of your daily duties to give your child attention. With this, you have taught him/her that you are not interested in what bothers them and so they should not trust you with their life. The implication of this is that as they grow into teens they would prefer.to talk to their friends.

Impatience is not a good quality for everyone, especially mothers.

Kindly drop your comments if you find this article useful.

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